Having a Blast!

My husband and his friend Sam love blowing things up. They love it so much that they went through all the trouble of getting a license so they could play with the really big toys. Very expensive, very dangerous, very much illegal (if you don’t have a license) EXPLOSIVES. Also known as FIREWORKS! And every year, the night before the fourth, they light these suckers and put on a big show for friends and family out in the country at Sam’s childhood home. It is awesome…

I think more people turned out for this year’s display than ever before. The word keeps spreading and the party gets bigger every year.

Everyone ate, talked and played games while the pyros set up the launch area on the other side of the property.

The black and red box allowed the guys to light the big fireworks by pushing a button on the box or remotely with a cell phone.

These are just plain scary.

This is Lindsay: Sam’s wife, cloth diaper addict, awesome neighbor and Frappe expert. Baby Ava is just five months old!

Micah watched his first fireworks display with Grandpa and Grandma in their van. Half way through the show he passed out because he was so sleepy! Eric’s mom said he loved every minute of it while he was awake, though.

Tomorrow (the 4th) we’re going to watch the city fireworks from the rooftop of the building downtown where Eric works. We should get an awesome view without the crowd. I’m looking forward to it!

Happy Independence Day!

A Detergent Dilemma

Less than a month into cloth diapering, I have to say things are going pretty well. Several things impress me about using cloth:

  1. “We’re out of diapers, better throw a load in.” vs. “We’re out of diapers, crap, let’s dig through the couch for some change. Oh shoot, I need gas, too!” (Yep, that’s how it was before!)
  2. The cloth diapers really trap in the smell of a poopy diaper. So much so that I’m often surprised to find he did go #2 when I open up the diaper during a change.
  3. With a fleece liner, cloth wicks away moisture just as well as disposable.
  4. His bum looks so cute, most of the time I just put a t-shirt on him and call it a day (unless we’re going somewhere, anyway).

I use Thirsties Diaper Wash, which costs $19.99 from Nicki’s Diapers and does 64 loads. Now it has come to my attention that maybe this isn’t the most effective, or cheapest route when it comes to washing my diapers. I’m always looking for ways to save a buck, but if there’s one thing I don’t want is a loss of quality when it comes to clean diapers. I hate diaper rash. I fear build up (and leaks). I detest bad smells. So far, I have had none of these problems (at least due to my detergent). Still, I’m curious if other detergents can do as well or better for less money.

I decided to turn to a few dependable cloth diapering websites and see what they had to say about detergent.

The Experts’ Recommendations:

Nicki’s Diapers

  • Use a laundry detergent that is free of dyes, perfumes, enzymes, brighteners, bleach and softeners. Laundry additives may prematurely break down elastic, hook & loop and waterproof material. Follow diaper manufacturer recommendations when considering these. (Recommended detergents: Rockin’ Green Cloth Diaper Detergent, Country Save, or Arm & Hammer Sensitive Skin)
  • DO NOT use Dreft or Fabric Softeners – they will coat cloth diapers and decrease absorbency.

Diaper Pin

  • Run the wash with hot water, detergent and 1/2 cup Arm and Hammer Washing Soda. Since my baby has sensitive skin, I use All HypoAllergen detergent. (I’m assuming she’s talking about All Free Clear.)

Green Mountain Diapers
(The author talks extensively about washing suggestions, but here are a few key points concerning detergent.)

  • My favorite detergent is Charlie’s Soap Laundry Powder or Liquid.
  • If the package says “brightens colors” or has whiteners or brighteners, or “optical or UV brighteners”, avoid it. That actually eliminates many of the mainstream laundry detergents, including both All and Purex “Free and Clear”. Avoid anything that says “keeps clothes fresh longer” or similar. That stuff, like Gain, is not rinsing out and causes buildup and possibly rashes.
  • For a store-bought detergent, usually the store brand least expensive one, powder if possible, has the least additives and is best. Sams Choice (Wal-mart’s store brand) or Sun powder (by Huish brands) are examples of good ones.
  • Tide, Ivory Snow and Dreft are considered harsh and are not recommended for regular use.

Cotton Babies

  • All Free and Clear – Military Version
  • Allen’s Naturally Powder/Liquid Standard & HE compatible
  • Country Save Powder Standard & HE
  • Mountain Green Free & Clear Standard & HE
  • Mountain Green Free & Clear Baby Standard & HE
  • Nellie’s All Natural Laundry Soda Standard & HE
  • Planet Ultra Liquid
  • Planet Ultra Powder Standard & HE compatible
  • Planet 2X Ultra Standard & HE

The Diaper Jungle
This site has a pretty nice chart with a rating system. I counted their highest rated detergents as a “vote.” Even then, I was still overwhelmed by the sheer number of recommended detergents. Geesh! I’m not going to add new detergents to the voting poll below, only count the ones here that are already listed, otherwise this is just going to get ridiculous. So if it’s on this list, and not on the one below, keep in mind it has one vote, okay?

  • Mountain Green Free and Clear
  • Allen’s Naturally Powder
  • Arm & Hammer Essentials Free
  • Bio-O-Kleen
  • Charlie’s Soap
  • Country Save
  • Drops
  • Ecos Free & Clear
  • EnviroRite
  • Lifekind
  • Maggie’s Soap Nuts
  • Nature Clean
  • Nellie’s Laundry Soda
  • Oxy-Prime
  • Penguin
  • Planet
  • SensiClean
  • Sport-Wash
  • Sun and Earth
  • Trader Joe’s

Overall “Votes” for Detergents:

  1. Rockin’ Green Cloth Diaper Detergent (Classic)
    Votes: 1
    Cost per load: $0.31
  2. Country Save
    Votes: 3
    Cost per load: $0.24
  3. Arm & Hammer Sensitive Skin
    Votes: 1
    Cost per load: $0.06 (if you use 1/4 of the normal amount as recommended)
  4. Thirsties Super Wash (I currently use)
    Votes: 0
    Cost per load: $0.31
  5. All Free Clear + Arm and Hammer Washing Soda
    Votes: 2 (+ 1 negative vote = so perhaps that makes 1 vote?)
    Cost per load: $0.06 + $0.27 = $0.33 (1/4 strength detergent plus 1/2 cup soda)
  6. Charlie’s Soap
    Votes: 2
    Cost per load:  $0.19
  7. Allen’s (5lb powder)
    Votes: 2
    Cost per load: $0.13
  8. Mountain Green Free & Clear (Baby)
    Votes: 2
    Cost per load: $0.33
  9. Nellie’s All Natural
    Votes: 2
    Cost per load: $0.19
  10. Planet (powder)
    Votes: 2
    Cost per load: $0.29

*Note: I did not include shipping costs on my prices, since many of these are available at cloth diaper stores or regular stores.

Conclusion:

Several detergents got more than one vote, but the only one that got 3 votes from the top sites I visited was Country Save. Interestingly enough, I did not find one recommendation for Thirsties Super Wash. My friend just ordered Classic Rock and we are going to compare it to Thirsties by trading some detergent. When my Thirsties runs out, I want to try Country Save, because it’s so popular, or Allen’s because it’s so inexpensive. I haven’t decided yet… Which one do you think I should experiment with next? Do you have a personal favorite? Where do you find the best deal?

Maternity Shoot: Josh and Char

Tonight I finished going through all the photos I took of Josh and Char last weekend.  Here are some of my favorites, not including the ones I already showed you…

(You’ll also notice I updated my watermark. Last night I figured out how to create a nifty little automation in Photoshop that resizes and adds a watermark all at once. Saves me tons of time!)

This little boy is loved so much.

This one cracks me up because he's supposed to be giving her a foot rub, but... well, as you can see... Haha!

I love baby shoes...

Baby in the middle!

This was taken in front of a cute little antique shop in Rockton. They were closed at the time.

I don't think we need a telescope to see she's expecting! :)

Good Times With My Nikon

Oh how I love taking pictures. I found plenty of opportunities to play with my camera this past week. It’s time for show and tell…

Thursday afternoon I took my son to my city’s flower gardens. I got so many great photos, two of which I’ll share here.

Tip: If you want to get great pictures of your kids, take them someplace interesting that is outdoors on a bright, overcast day. Set your shutter speed a little faster than usual (I used 1/200 sec. for these). Let them loose and allow them to explore and play to their heart’s content (within reason). They will forget all about the camera in your hand and that is when you’ll catch the magic shots – the ones that truly capture their personality. Don’t even try to catch a toddler with anything slower than 1/80.  All you’ll see is a blur!

Micah loves to run around and he is constantly on the go all day long.  He is always on a mission. He is very persistent, curious and a little bit devious. I love every second of chasing him around when he is exploring new territory. He shows me things I have stopped or failed to notice. Nothing gets past him. Of course, my favorite moments are when he runs in my direction for a big hug. He always comes back to mama to check in before he runs off again.

Saturday morning, we visited the strawberry patch with Grandma, Aunt Kelly and Uncle Mark.  I haven’t been strawberry picking since I was in high school, I think. It has been so long. I am still enjoying the strawberries we picked that morning. They are so sweet and juicy, you don’t even need sugar to sweeten them up. I ate a bowl of them, sliced in halves, this afternoon with my lunch. They are like nothing you can buy in a store. Micah picked a strawberry – just one – then quickly squeezed it in his little fist. He’s better at carrying the basket.

Saturday night, I had the awesome blessing of photographing Char and her husband Josh to commemorate their first pregnancy. They are due with their first child, a boy, next month. I am so excited for her because I know how much she has looked forward to having a child. She waited for a long time for the right time. Now they are going to be parents soon, and I know they are going to do such a good job.

These are just a couple of the shots, of course. There are so many good ones, it’s hard to pick. I haven’t even finished going through all of them yet.  I love photo editing – I end up staying up late every night until I am done because I become so immersed in the project.  Every shot is a work of art to me – fine tuning the color, adding special effects and filters. It is almost as fun as taking the pictures, in my opinion! I am always looking for new styles to add interest and diversity to an album. I have redone some of my wedding photos countless times. Every time I learn a new trick, I like to try it out on some of my favorite pics from my wedding. I think I’m obsessed. :)

Well, it’s ridiculously late and I’m going to pay for it tomorrow. I’ll probably have to take a nap with the kiddo to catch up. Oh, the perks of staying home with your kids!

Showers!

Life gets busy… and blogging falls by the wayside. I have good reasons for my lack of updates. For one, I attended two different showers this past weekend: one was for an upcoming wedding and the other for a mommy-to-be. I have been busy working on some photos from both events (I’ll give you a sneak peak.) I have been spending some quality time with friends. I’ve been hanging out with my hubby. And… I have been busy making money as a brand new mystery shopper! I am also blogging like crazy for Families.com. I have a little mini vacation coming up and I want to get ahead on that blog so I don’t have to worry about it while I’m gone. Needless to say, when given the chance to update this blog or do something else on my list, I’ve been choosing the something else. No regrets – that’s the way it should be!

The wedding shower was so much fun. I love being around Amber because her genuine love for her friends (and her future fiance, of course) is so infectious. You end up reminiscing about your own engagement or wedding and then you want to go home and give your husband a really big kiss. She is going to be a beautiful bride. I am extra blessed because I will have the privilege of photographing her wedding in June.

Just two days later, I got to go to my friend Charlene’s baby shower. I really like bridal showers, but let me tell you, I LOVE baby showers. Maybe’s it’s because I anticipate how much motherhood is going to rock their world (for the better). Pregnant woman are also so beautiful. They glow with excitement. Bellies are always oh so cute.

We took a few quick shots outside after the shower just for fun. She looked so pretty in this dress, how could we pass up this photo op?

These are just a few. I have another dozen photos to edit, and then I’m going to burn them all (just under 100) onto a CD for her. We’re also going to do a full session with her husband sometime soon. I have so much fun taking pictures, especially when it is for my friends and family. Both Amber and Char are part of my church family and all of the lovely ladies at Hope mean so much to me. When I arrived on the scene five years ago as Eric’s new girlfriend, they all took me in as their friend and welcomed me with open hearts. Now we are all getting married and starting families together – it gets me all choked up!

How Fun

I remember when I was blogging on Xanga, one blogger would make up these funny awards to give to people, similar to senior superlatives. That’s what I thought of when I received the Sunshine Award from two blogging buddies this week, Aholic and Strawberry Fields. It’s so cute, I half expected fuzzy white bunnies to start hopping around on my screen. Well I am glad to be equated with sunshine and flowers.  Thank you for the award, ladies! I am so curious about who started the Sunshine Award…

In any case, I received conflicting instructions on how to pass on this award – one said to pass it on to 12 recipients and one said 5 recipients. I am going to make this award a little more elite by passing it on to only one. And the winner is…

Ashley from Baking with Ashley

Because there is nothing more full of sunshine and happiness than adorable and delicious cupcakes and other goodies.

TGIF

It’s Friday night and I’m feelin’ alright…

I’m going to participate in my first Friday Follow tonight. A little late, but that’s okay. (Scroll down for more info.)

Friday Follow

So, how did I spend my Friday?

My mom, my sister and her husband all came over tonight and we made two skillets of delicious veggie stir fry. Oh it was so good. Kelly brought this yummy raspberry dessert as well. I can’t think of a better way to kick off the weekend!

Tomorrow I will be going to a friend’s wedding with Eric. We are leaving the mini-man at Grandma and Grandpa’s, so it’s date night! Can’t remember the last time we had one of those… I am bringing my good camera and will hopefully get some sweet shots. I can’t wait to slow dance with Eric!

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Crochet Project: DSLR Camera Strap Cover

I like to crochet, but I tend to go in spurts. I’ll whip out several projects and then I won’t touch yarn for months. I am currently in one of those spurts. It started with a baby hat for an upcoming shower, and then I started staring at my basket of yarn, dreaming of all the other things I could make.

Last week, I went to my friend Lindsay’s house down the street and we made covers for our DSLR camera straps from scraps of fabric we had laying around. I like how mine turned out, but a few days later my dad offered me his old camera strap, which is plush (the neck part is high grade foam, oh yeah…) Of course I wanted to make this strap as pretty as the first one, but I wasn’t ready to wrestle with my sewing machine again. Then I had an idea – I’ll crochet a slip cover!

For this particular strap I used the standard 8 hook and regular weight, variegated yarn. I started a chain of 12, slip stitched into the 12th chain from the hook and began to work in single crochets around the circle until the piece was long enough to fit over the plush part of the strap. Then I tied off and sewed a long piece of yarn through each end, leaving tails.  After I slipped the cover over the strap, I pulled the tails tight, knotted them, and used the hook to pull them back underneath the cover, hidden from view. Simple and pretty!

Cubby Fan(atic)

A long time ago, when Eric and I were first together, he realized something about me and has teased me about it ever since. I’m not talking about my inability to jump. (That’s another story.) And some like-minded women might even related to my obsession. Men will most likely understand why Eric thinks it’s so funny (or cute, right?). Ahem…. I have a fascination with cubbies.

If money were no object, my house would be full of cubbies. The closets would be cubbied. The pantry would be cubbied. The laundry room would be seriously cubbied. In my mind, there is no greater or higher form of organization than cute, square cubby holes. Money is an object, so I have settled for the 9 cube block in the living room and its matching set in Micah’s playroom, both of which are used to store toys and books. Both have adorable canvas totes in assorted colors.

Where am I going with this? Oh yeah… I picked a new theme for my blog a while ago when I switched to self-hosting. It was pretty bland for my tastes, but there was something about it that struck a chord with me. Yesterday and today I spent some time redesigning the theme’s colors and details, and slowly but surely it is beginning to reflect my personality and design tastes. It’s not quite there yet, but I’m no Michelangelo when it comes to web design, so it will take some time. I love the cartoon of my family, though. I should really start drawing more – it is a nice little stress reliever.

I was staring at the screen this afternoon, trying to brainstorm about things I could change or add, when all of a sudden, it occurred to me what it is that I like so much about this theme.

It has cubbies.

And then I went back in my mind and visualized all of the favorite blogs I’ve ever owned or designed, and I realized they all have one thing in common. They are very modular. They are very organized. They have lots and lots of cubbies.

I like my posts organized in neat little boxes, I like square pictures in my sidebars, I like everything having its own border and section and title. I’m a cubby fanatic and it has manifested itself in my blog design.

I’m sure I’m not the only one. I have a theory that we are a certain breed of women: we like cubbies, we shop at Target, we have a blog, we like design projects. It’s also highly unlikely that our walls are left white. What do you think?

Softball Season

This past Thursday was Eric’s second softball game of the season. The games rotate between three or four time slots, so sometimes he’ll play at 6:30 and sometimes he doesn’t start until after 9pm. Since this last game was an early one, I decided to come along and bring the little guy so he could see his first softball game! We hung out with Grandpa behind the dugout.

It didn’t take long before Mr. Micah started wiping out in the dirt. Not that he cared; he was too busy exploring all the grass, spare bats, fences, picnic tables, softballs and little kids running around. I was proud of his dusty badge of honor on his rear. He’s my little tough guy!

Every time Eric was in view on the other side of the fence, Micah would shriek and point. He just loves his daddy! Eric was playing catcher, which according to him is a very boring position, but he did a good job.

He was a little rusty with the bat, but it’s the beginning of the season and he didn’t play last year. I’ll give him some slack. Plus, if I were to step up to that plate, we’d all be laughing for a very long time.

Softball didn’t really hold Micah’s attention. He was more interested in running all over the park. He was really intense. For a child that usually never lets his mama out of sight, he sure goes wild outside. He just kept going full speed ahead. I’m not even sure if he knew what he was headed for, but he was on a mission.  He probably would have run clear to the other side of the park had I not picked him up and brought him back, much to his disappointment. I think he loves the outdoors because there are no walls or boundaries. He perceives ultimate freedom and decides he’s gonna make a break for it.

The game got cut short because the other team was so far ahead. We got creamed. I was rooting for Eric, but I was also really cold and very relieved to get out of there early. We went to Culver’s afterward with Eric’s dad and a few of our friends. Everyone was amazed by Micah’s appetite; he ate an entire kid’s meal by himself.  The only part of the kid’s meal he didn’t eat was the dessert, but that’s because I ate it. Babies don’t need cookies, and I couldn’t let it go to waste, right? hehe… I know I’m terrible! I’ll let him have the cookies when he’s a little bigger, I promise!